It's interesting sitting here on an old version of #Calckey seeing someone on #Mastodon server telling their fellow user that posting to unlisted will opt-out of #search when I can see Unlisted posts in my antennas quite easily [ though I believe this has been rightly rectified in the newest versions of #Firefish / #Iceshrimp but need to confirm]. Frankly, there's little understanding even among admins across the #fediverse about what's a Mastodon / Mastodon API function that is federated to other Mastodon servers but doesn't translate well outside of Mastodon on other #ActivityPub connected platforms like #Misskey and it's forks, #Hubzilla and #Friendica. And simple, up-to-date documentation doesn't really exist to explain the **realities** of federation vs what your admin said was the reality. AP was not built with privacy in mind, and 'security through obscurity' was mostly a Mastodon thing from when folks thought the Mastoverse was the whole fediverse [which has never been the case] and wasn't being scraped by Google et al.
Unfortunately we have a cadre of devs across all fedi platforms who'll give glowing lip-service to both the fedi and ActivityPub histories of being built by queer or other minority identities but still won't work on giving folks the granular privacy and safety controls that weren't included in those protocols, and whose feature roadmaps now just look like Twitter 2.0 funded by the milquetoast liberals in political tech who provide their seed money. #FediverseSafety