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   lilli (lilli@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Sunday, 06-Aug-2023 07:20:56 JST lilli
   i found a ten-year-old research paper claiming that men who experience chivalrous¹ door-holding from other men experience a decrease in self-esteem, while women do not. is this true, and is it better or worse if a woman holds the door for a man? i'd kinda hoped this practice was degendered by this point & if it is not i might have to start doing it even more to promote it becoming so
   
   ¹ i.e. the person you're holding the door for goes in before you do
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 06-Aug-2023 07:20:52 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     • meso
     What if a tranny holds the door for you?
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     meso (meso@the.asbestos.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 06-Aug-2023 07:20:53 JST meso

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     @lilli it leads to an increase of me saying thank you or awkwardly nodding
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     meso (meso@the.asbestos.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 06-Aug-2023 07:23:34 JST meso

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     • Fediverse Contractor
     @bot @lilli same thing
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 06-Aug-2023 07:23:34 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     • meso
     What if he spanks you on the way in?