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   eris (eris@akko.disqordia.space)'s status on Tuesday, 01-Aug-2023 04:56:35 JST eris
   I hate the tendency of trans people who are not trans women to use their trans identity as a shield from criticism about behavior towards trans women.
   
   You might be trans, as in don't identify with your assigned birth ("demi" cis people not included), but you're not trans women. You don't experience transmisogny which is one of the most vile and hateful and violent forms of oppression. You may experience erasure of your identity or oppression from other identities, but not transmisogny.
   
   So when trans women say "Hey your behavior is hurting us" and you go "but I'm trans too so shut up" that's not okay. I see it too often on fedi and it's fucking gross. The fucking audacity to pull that shit angers me like nothing else.
   
   And the way cis "allies" like are0h treat transmisogny as non-existent and reduces all trans experience down to just a change of identity without specific regard for transmisogny, like, actually fuck you dude
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     Ava Affine (ava@social.sunnypup.io)'s status on Tuesday, 01-Aug-2023 05:12:51 JST Ava Affine

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     @eris ironic because a past version of the fedi got on are0h for his transmisogyny. He used his oppressed status as a black man to deflect from the accusations (only other people with my specific oppressed background can criticize me for my transmisogyny, etc). Give it a month and he was back, with his friends talking up how reformed he is (manufacturing credibility) and no surprise, still a transmisogynist.

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     eris (eris@akko.disqordia.space)'s status on Tuesday, 01-Aug-2023 05:13:16 JST eris

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     • Ava Affine
     @ava when he was attacking Millie from his play vicious account right?
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     Ava Affine (ava@social.sunnypup.io)'s status on Tuesday, 01-Aug-2023 05:17:08 JST Ava Affine

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     @eris I think it was before then (wow this dude has. a history of issues with femmes huh?)

     Ive been on the dedi since before activity pub and its hard to remember every drama along the way

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     eris (eris@akko.disqordia.space)'s status on Tuesday, 01-Aug-2023 05:19:08 JST eris

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     • Ava Affine
     @ava yeah his ability to moderate sounds yikes
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     eris (eris@akko.disqordia.space)'s status on Monday, 07-Aug-2023 10:22:55 JST eris

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     • FinalOverdrive
     @FinalOverdrive depends on the demi. There's demi trans and demi cis depending on your identity with your assigned gender
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     FinalOverdrive (finaloverdrive@kolektiva.social)'s status on Monday, 07-Aug-2023 10:22:56 JST FinalOverdrive

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     @eris Eh, demi people aren't cis.