@lithium@outerheaven.club @chumii@chaos.social i don’t care too much about bodies. i’m attracted to feminine guys in theory.
it’s just that i dislike some forms of masculinity so strongly that i might as well just consider myself a lesbian
that’s why i’m hesitant to use the bi/pan label to describe my sexuality. i know with certainty that i’m into women and, more broadly speaking, femininity. there’s never been a moment of questioning that. but with men there’s all kinds of conditions and standards coming into play that really just make it feel like i’m looking for excuses to be attracted to them.
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miauz genyau (mia@movsw.0x0.st)'s status on Monday, 29-May-2023 23:44:05 JST miauz genyau - NeonPurpleStar :heart_bi: likes this.
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NeonPurpleStar :heart_bi: (neonpurplestar@outerheaven.club)'s status on Monday, 29-May-2023 23:46:48 JST NeonPurpleStar :heart_bi: @mia @chumii @lithium i also face this question myself sometimes
i heavily dislike masculinity ( traits like facial hair, body hair, much muscle)
but i know for sure i like people with male genitalia... so.... -
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NeonPurpleStar :heart_bi: (neonpurplestar@outerheaven.club)'s status on Monday, 29-May-2023 23:49:27 JST NeonPurpleStar :heart_bi: @chumii @mia @lithium well, that's not for me to decide
i think it is generally accepted that guys have more body hair, and that excess is what i find repugnant -
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Isabell / Isi 🐾 (chumii@chaos.social)'s status on Monday, 29-May-2023 23:49:29 JST Isabell / Isi 🐾 @NeonPurpleStar @mia @lithium does me having body hair make me masculine? 🥴