Notices by Isabell / Isi 🐾 (chumii@chaos.social)

migrating to @isibell

but leaving this account existing as usual fallback

gerade doch wieder froh, auf fedi zu sein, wegen der für mich einzigartigen Möglichkeit des entspannten Erfahrungsaustauschs mit Leuten, die man gar nicht kennt, die viel zu erzählen haben, was man sonst nie mal erfahren hätte können

@puniko ich will aber nur für Säugetiere, Fische, Vögel und Reptilien süß sein, nicht für Insekten!!!

Kann mir mal wer erklären, warum Fliegen immer in meine Ohren oder mein Gesicht fliegen wollen?

@puniko es sieht genau so aus, wie ich, wenn ich im Bettchen liege und einen Partner anstrahle, wie er mir Kaffee ans Bett bringt

@puniko suyamoji

@ente @puniko Herr E., Ihr seid verhaftet!

@ente @puniko vanilla reference :<

I think I should maybe sort through my follows and followings lists but things like that make me feel so guilty. I am scared of making people feel bad. But I also feel uncomfortable myself when I see posts I don't really want to see (not because of anything triggering, but just because they're somewhat private and I'm not even interacting with that person much anymore, even though I did once some time ago)

I am pretty sure that the people I had once been close with would definitely feel hurt when I would remove them from my fedi lists

But I also feel so uncomfortable staying like this

I am not sure if it would make it better to write them directly that I don't really feel as close anymore and want a bit more distance and stuff, since direct rejections like that can really trigger people badly emotionally

I don't want them to think I wouldn't like them anymore

I wish there was a way to say "Hey, I still like you, but I don't feel as close with you anymore to be comfortable staying in your fedi bubble" without it feeling like a social rejection and stuff

@kaia I think it helps people to not have to deal with their own emotions if they can just continue blaming other people for them

@eichkat3r Tag 5. Ich ernährte mich von den Luxus-Pralinen und verlor so langsam all meine Geschmacksnerven an den Zucker. Mein igluartig aussehendes Zelt bestehend aus teuren Kleidern und Hartschalen-Koffern bietet zumindest genügend Schutz, um nicht von den anderen Kunden, die mit mir hier drin fest stecken, belauert zu werden.

@puniko "volpibex" sounds soooo cute 💗🐑

@puniko ・ω・zzzzzzzzzzzzzz

@puniko ・ω・*ist mit offenen Augen im Halbschlaf*

@puniko @mezzodrinker *fährt auf einem Bürostuhl ganz schnell durchs Bild* wheeeeeEEEEUUUUUIIIIEEEEeeeeeee

As in, nobody can even know that your profile exists until you follow them deliberatel

Wish there was an allowlist mode for profiles working like that only people who you follow can even see your profile in the first place

@kaia Grillchen is probably still asleep