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Another Angry Woman (stavvers@masto.ai)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Apr-2023 20:17:24 JST Another Angry Woman

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1. I (F21) think I'm in love with my roommate (F21) I'm in a bit of a pickle lol. I think I'm in love with my roommate (F21). We only started rooming together last semester and we made plans to do so for next school year too, but man, these feelings are getting to me and every day it's harder to push them down. I really love everything about her, her artistic talents, her smile, her laugh, how she enjoys spending time with me even if that just means sitting together on the couch or going to the gas station. We spend a lot of time together, usually watching shows during dinner or sharing space while doing homework, but we do other things together too like getting ice cream, going to the park or mall together, and just finding ways where we can occupy each other's space. Before spring break, I made her a playlist with a good amount of love songs on them, as well as some of both of our favorite songs and I know she listened to it a lot over spring break. Sometimes I feel she might feel the same way, but I'm not sure if it's because she likes me or because she's just that comfortable around me. She lets me cuddle up to her on the couch, hold her hand, just be all touchy-feely with her in a way I think of as romantic but she just expects from me now and doesn't mind. She also doesn't bat an eye or care when most people assume we're dating because of our comfort around each other, such as sitting with each other and laughing during events, having inside jokes, that sort of thing.
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2. I've thought about broaching the subject but as I said, I'm nervous. I know she likes men and women but doesn't want to label her sexuality, partly because she doesn't really feel like a label would fit her but also because I know she grew up in a homophobic religious household, and so entering into a romantic relationship with a woman may be hard for her. I both want and don't want to confess, I'm just at a loss. I haven't felt this way about someone before, just so connected to her in a way that's so profound and lovely. Anyway, any advice? I know this sounds cliche but I just wish I knew if she liked me in more than a platonic way.
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  cohomology is FUN! (cohomologyisfun@mastodon.sdf.org)'s status on Thursday, 13-Apr-2023 01:16:02 JST cohomology is FUN!
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  @stavvers maybe I’m being a clueless cishet dude here, but it seems like it might still be a good step to *explicitly clarify* the nature of their relationship. Anyway, I’m rooting for them! Hope it works out.
  
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  Another Angry Woman (stavvers@masto.ai)'s status on Thursday, 13-Apr-2023 01:16:03 JST Another Angry Woman
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  in b4 the update where the roommate is very surprised by the confession because she thought they'd been dating for months
  
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  Ben Aveling (benaveling@mastodon.ie)'s status on Thursday, 13-Apr-2023 20:36:52 JST Ben Aveling
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  @cohomologyisFUN @goatsarah @stavvers but it might not be…
  
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