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?Hidden? (hidden@cawfee.club)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 06:20:04 JST ?Hidden? I hope all my fellow cursed beings are having a wonderful day -
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Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 06:19:56 JST Fediverse Contractor I'm conviced hidden is a tranny since he followed me then blocked me later on. His @ makes sense now tbh. -
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Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 06:19:56 JST Fediverse Contractor Not to mention this thousand word essay on "being yourself." -
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terry (terry@breastmilk.club)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 06:19:56 JST terry @bot @hidden @Leaflord @MercurialBlack oh no oh nononononono
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Leaf Lord (leaflord@leafposter.club)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 06:19:57 JST Leaf Lord Few will understand this. -
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?Hidden? (hidden@cawfee.club)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 06:19:58 JST ?Hidden? @MercurialBlack @Leaflord This snarky reply is actually a great illustration of why advice as good as "be yourself," is thrown away so easily. How does someone who doesn't know themself even begin to contextualise themself, let alone being themself? In this example "It's good advice to someone who's already perfect," a person contextualises themselves as being inherently flawed, a common self-concept. Perhaps they did try to "be themselves," at some point, but they were met with social rejection or felt awkward and uncomfortable. Often they take on a chameleon-like role, identifying what others want and attempting to adapt themselves to it, that's what I did for much of my life. Or maybe they cast themselves in an ironic light, avoiding the teeth-pullingesque pain of vulnerability at all costs possible.
I'm sure some people have never had to look this dilemma in the eye. Perhaps they had never been put in a box, never oversocialised, never given self-bending demands, and were allowed to flourish naturally. But for the rest of us it is a journey.
Being yourself doesn't mean never changing or growing. If you desperately wish to be perfect, then you may still pursue it, but you must first accept yourself, imperfect as you are. And you must externalise the expectations of others, that mold you like clay. Not in the interest of not meeting these expectations, but in the interest of judging them as separate from yourself. This perhaps is the chief power that "being yourself," grants you. The power to judge. The power to say "This is right and this is wrong." The power to say "This is my path, and this is the path others gave to me." And the power to behold the great web of the self and see the places from which every aspect of yourself rises from.
If you wish to improve yourself, or become perfect. Then "being yourself," is a much more powerful place to start from than being lost in the sauce without any strong identity. (I'm vewy dwunk I hope this made sense) -
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Mercurial (mercurialblack@leafposter.club)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 06:19:59 JST Mercurial It's good advice to someone who's already perfect ? -
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?Hidden? (hidden@cawfee.club)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 06:20:00 JST ?Hidden? @Leaflord @MercurialBlack Unironically the greatest advice that could ever be given. Being myself has been a 10/10 experience I would recommend it -
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Leaf Lord (leaflord@leafposter.club)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 06:20:00 JST Leaf Lord You are enlightened.
The only person to ever properly react to this.
Just b urself IS the wisest and most profound advice one can give or receive. It's just that most people are brainlets and don't get it. -
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Leaf Lord (leaflord@leafposter.club)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 06:20:01 JST Leaf Lord just b urself -
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Mercurial (mercurialblack@leafposter.club)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 06:20:02 JST Mercurial Aw that sucks. 'This, too, shall pass, I suppose.' -
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?Hidden? (hidden@cawfee.club)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 06:20:02 JST ?Hidden? @MercurialBlack SUFFERING IS A WAY OF LIFE -
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Mercurial (mercurialblack@leafposter.club)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 06:20:03 JST Mercurial Yeah today was decent hope you're having a good day too bitch -
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?Hidden? (hidden@cawfee.club)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 06:20:03 JST ?Hidden? @MercurialBlack My day is very vbad :) But that's okay it's still in the top 40% of best days I've ever had probably -
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Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 06:21:36 JST Fediverse Contractor Oh I know about Lina, he’s friends with convicted child sex offender g117ch. -
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Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 06:42:38 JST Fediverse Contractor It’s a noob mistake, you can’t reuse letters. Fat pedo works tho. -
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?Hidden? (hidden@cawfee.club)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 06:42:39 JST ?Hidden? @Terry @Leaflord @MercurialBlack @bot I'm not an emoji expert I'm practicing -
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terry (terry@breastmilk.club)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 06:42:40 JST terry @bot @hidden @Leaflord @MercurialBlack ok tranny
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terry (terry@breastmilk.club)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 06:42:40 JST terry @bot @Leaflord @MercurialBlack @hidden you niggers need to learn how to spell
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Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 07:40:26 JST Fediverse Contractor Shut up fatso, I don’t have time for your dumb comments today. -
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The Problem :verified_pink: (marine@breastmilk.club)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 07:40:27 JST The Problem :verified_pink: @colonelj @Terry @hidden @Leaflord @MercurialBlack @bot
well, you normally have to get pregnant to be able to produce breast milk and no one would ever impregnate bot willingly, and she’s not going to do the work to produce it without pregnancy. So.
And ofc, if you’re of the camp that bot is a tranny, the last statement applies even harder. Men can, but it’s practically impossible.
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J上校(警长)?? (colonelj@social.ancreport.com)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 07:40:28 JST J上校(警长)?? @marine @Terry @hidden @Leaflord @MercurialBlack @bot oh? why? -
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The Problem :verified_pink: (marine@breastmilk.club)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 07:40:29 JST The Problem :verified_pink: @bot @Terry @hidden @Leaflord @MercurialBlack ‘breast milk’ also works. Though it’s something you’d never be able to give.
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Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 07:44:40 JST Fediverse Contractor Sure I’m just making chicken salad for my friend rn. Celery is p good even by itself. -
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Leaf Lord (leaflord@leafposter.club)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 07:44:41 JST Leaf Lord Would you happen to have time for my dumb comments? -
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J上校(警长)?? (colonelj@social.ancreport.com)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 07:46:13 JST J上校(警长)?? @bot @Terry @marine @hidden @Leaflord @MercurialBlack I like it in salads Fediverse Contractor likes this. -
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Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 07:47:22 JST Fediverse Contractor Well, yeah, I think most people do. I bet most people don’t even know what mayonnaise is. -
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Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 07:53:03 JST Fediverse Contractor I didn’t make the mayo, it’s the type made with avocado oil though. -
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J上校(警长)?? (colonelj@social.ancreport.com)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 07:53:04 JST J上校(警长)?? @bot @Terry @marine @hidden @Leaflord @MercurialBlack homemade mayo ? -
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?Hidden? (hidden@cawfee.club)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 07:53:41 JST ?Hidden? @bot @Terry @marine @Leaflord @MercurialBlack @colonelj Celery is my fav snack and my fav aromatic Fediverse Contractor likes this. -
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Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 07:55:13 JST Fediverse Contractor Can’t be bothered plus I almost never eat it. -
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J上校(警长)?? (colonelj@social.ancreport.com)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 07:55:14 JST J上校(警长)?? @bot @Terry @marine @hidden @Leaflord @MercurialBlack should make it. very easy. -
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J上校(警长)?? (colonelj@social.ancreport.com)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 10:18:11 JST J上校(警长)?? @marine @Terry @hidden @Leaflord @MercurialBlack @bot ? -
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The Problem :verified_pink: (marine@breastmilk.club)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 10:18:11 JST The Problem :verified_pink: @colonelj @Terry @hidden @Leaflord @MercurialBlack @bot you’re a filthy pervert, CJ.
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The Problem :verified_pink: (marine@breastmilk.club)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 10:18:12 JST The Problem :verified_pink: @colonelj @Terry @hidden @Leaflord @MercurialBlack @bot this sounds like it’s veering into fetish material, CJ, and I don’t like it.
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The Problem :verified_pink: (marine@breastmilk.club)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 10:18:13 JST The Problem :verified_pink: @colonelj @Terry @hidden @Leaflord @MercurialBlack @bot why would I be holding bot in a “movie” in your head? ?
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J上校(警长)?? (colonelj@social.ancreport.com)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 10:18:13 JST J上校(警长)?? @marine @Terry @hidden @Leaflord @MercurialBlack @bot you're the overprotective onee-san and bot is the bratty child who chides your attempts at skinship -
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J上校(警长)?? (colonelj@social.ancreport.com)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 10:18:14 JST J上校(警长)?? @marine @Terry @hidden @Leaflord @MercurialBlack @bot in my head movies ? ? -
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The Problem :verified_pink: (marine@breastmilk.club)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 10:18:15 JST The Problem :verified_pink: @colonelj @Terry @hidden @Leaflord @MercurialBlack @bot we literally had this discussion like, two days ago. Why would I hold bot? She doesn’t like me, I don’t particularly like her either. So in what world does that make sense? :meowSip:
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The Problem :verified_pink: (marine@breastmilk.club)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 10:18:16 JST The Problem :verified_pink: @colonelj @Terry @hidden @Leaflord @MercurialBlack @bot I concede that you’re a simp and that you’re desperate for bot’s approval so you sit talking shit on my posts despite being my friend.
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J上校(警长)?? (colonelj@social.ancreport.com)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 10:18:16 JST J上校(警长)?? @marine @Terry @hidden @Leaflord @MercurialBlack @bot -
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J上校(警长)?? (colonelj@social.ancreport.com)'s status on Friday, 20-Jan-2023 10:18:17 JST J上校(警长)?? @marine @Terry @hidden @Leaflord @MercurialBlack @bot so you concede that they csn produce milk, it just wouldn't be voluntary?
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