Shout out to the flight attendant on the London -> NYC flight 10 years ago who just sat with me in the galley for waaay too long talking about her friend who had killed himself and telling me that I'd get through it, without for a second denying how hard is was or how much it fucks you up. she did yeoman's work that day, even if maybe people didn't get their drinks as fast as they should have.
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Quinn Norton (quinn@social.circl.lu)'s status on Friday, 13-Jan-2023 13:52:07 JST Quinn Norton - Alexandre Oliva likes this.
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Michał "rysiek" Woźniak · 🇺🇦 (rysiek@mstdn.social)'s status on Friday, 13-Jan-2023 13:53:14 JST Michał "rysiek" Woźniak · 🇺🇦 @quinn the right person at the right time in the right place. And with the right emotional capacity to offer a shoulder to lean on.
Not all heroes wear capes.
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xyhhx (xyhhx@fosstodon.org)'s status on Friday, 13-Jan-2023 13:53:56 JST xyhhx @rysiek a few days ago was the anniversary of the suicide of a former lover of mine too. not to mention another acquaintance died a few days ago. sorry if i was colder than i couldve been but i wasnt ready for that post.
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Michał "rysiek" Woźniak · 🇺🇦 (rysiek@mstdn.social)'s status on Friday, 13-Jan-2023 13:53:57 JST Michał "rysiek" Woźniak · 🇺🇦 @xyhhx "cw dawg" is nowhere near an acceptable response here regardless of how long or not-long ago it was.
Have some basic human empathy.
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xyhhx (xyhhx@fosstodon.org)'s status on Friday, 13-Jan-2023 13:53:58 JST xyhhx wait no it wasnt recent
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xyhhx (xyhhx@fosstodon.org)'s status on Friday, 13-Jan-2023 13:53:59 JST xyhhx @quinn oh i didn't realize it was like recent i'm so sorry ?
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Quinn Norton (quinn@social.circl.lu)'s status on Friday, 13-Jan-2023 13:54:00 JST Quinn Norton @xyhhx like jesus that's a genuinely fucked up thing to say to another human being 10 years after her lover killed himself, you need to think on that.
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Quinn Norton (quinn@social.circl.lu)'s status on Friday, 13-Jan-2023 13:54:01 JST Quinn Norton @xyhhx that's really not the feedback i need tonight probably you should unfollow me
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xyhhx (xyhhx@fosstodon.org)'s status on Friday, 13-Jan-2023 13:54:03 JST xyhhx @quinn cw dawg