What's a well-intentioned thing that cis people do to "be a good ally" that is just not fucking helpful?

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   Terra: Chaos Lesbian (terra@chaosfem.tw)'s status on Saturday, 29-Apr-2023 11:38:43 JST Terra: Chaos Lesbian

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   Tell us we are anything.

   Like, literally anything. Don't fucking tell me I'm brave, or beautiful, or strong, or accepted, or worthy, or… fucking anything… don't fucking tell me that I am anything…

   Listen… Listen to what Trans people are telling YOU… then figure out what you are NOT doing.