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Headline text which reads "This is how we do it: ‘We both sleep with other people – it keeps us on our toes’ Mali and Leo say a little competition stops them from taking each other for granted How do you do it? Share the story of your sex life, anonymously"

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Headline text which reads "This is how we do it: ‘We both sleep with other people – it keeps us on our toes’ Mali and Leo say a little competition stops them from taking each other for granted How do you do it? Share the story of your sex life, anonymously"
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Girl on the Net (girlonthenet@mastodon.social)'s status on Sunday, 17-Dec-2023 01:27:22 JST Girl on the Net

I'm no #polyamory expert but ... "we fuck other people to keep each other on our toes" doesn't seem like the healthiest way to conduct a relationship.
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/dec/16/this-is-how-we-do-it-we-both-sleep-with-other-people-it-keeps-us-on-our-toes?utm_source=press.coop
Bonus eyeroll points for including this bullshit: "I think it’s a little selfish to expect one person to fulfil all your needs, until one or other of you dies."
(Monogamy doesn't expect that either - it's why we have *friends*! https://www.girlonthenet.com/blog/argument-for-nonmonogamy/)

In conversation about a year ago from mastodon.social permalink