Notices by Valerie Roney (vlrny@disabled.social)

Not to brag (total brag) but I just remembered my sunglasses were on top of my head BEFORE I went frantically searching in my bag.

Ug. Stupid trees getting all up in my face with their stupid tree sex.
Ug. Get a room.
...or a biodome, I suppose.

Tagging all the @lonelinesscorps crew:
This is validating af, if you are ill and want to share with friends to help them understand, or help yourself understand why you have to make the choices you do.

👉If you're not ill, can you plan low key activities that are easier for #spoonies to engage in and expand your own social sphere?
https://disabled.social/@tomkindlon/114400091881032856

Ok this is fekkin brilliant. A lil site that runs you through a self care check flow chart. Super helpful when you feel like hell and can't think straight.

https://philome.la/jace_harr/you-feel-like-shit-an-interactive-self-care-guide/play/index.html
#spoonies #brainFog #ADHD #auADHD #longCovid #ADD #actuallyAutistic #chronicIllness #mentalHealth #selfCare

It occurs to me, there's nothing wrong with my brain.

I would thrive in a slow, gentle world focused on candor and justice with lots of quiet, natural environments to chill and let deep thoughts unfold.

I just happen to be terribly wired for a society that's pretty much going off the rails in all directions.

#autismAwarenessMonth #autismAcceptanceMonth #actuallyAutistic

I don't think people understand the debate around using CW's isn't about it sheltering the people you think "should" see it "should" care about it...

👉It is there to protect the people who are already experiencing the things you are outraged about.

It is there so the people who are already being harmed by society can have a break, can have some refuge in their socials and not be triggered.

Your displays of outrage are harming the people you are supposed to be advocating for. Be sensitive.

In #spoonieTown they pack your groceries for you.

AND help take them out to your car/bike/wagon.

AND if yer neighbours see you unloading groceries they wander up to see if you need help.

I walk by a school yard that has a disappointing amount of snack litter blown up into the shrubs and such. It makes me sad.

It's too much for me to pick up, but I can't shift the Marge Simpson grumbles of disapproval at the state of things.

In an inspired moment of clarity today I realized I could pick up one piece every time I walked by. It allows me to feel like I am responding to the need, but not swamped by it.

#randomActsOfKindness #smallThingsMatter

I'm sitting here looking at the mushrooms coming up through the rotting leaves, and thinking about how much grief and loss are required for growth and change.

Moderation tools I wish were available at the user level:

1) the ability to reject and remove unwelcome comments on my thread.

2) the ability to send a toot with comments closed entirely, not everything has to be a discussion/argument.

#mastodon #onlineSafety #userDriven

☝️and obvs my apologies to anyone who @'s me and doesn't get much of a reply. Using my phone is becoming more and more eye strain-y and likely to only to get worse until I get the surgery.

So..... I have rapidly developing cataracts (thanks 🤬 prednisone and/or weird assed immune system).
Am awaiting cataract surgery referral.
In the meantime hit me with your best cataract hacks to get me through, lighting tips n whatnot.

This is changing faster than I can discover workarounds so definitely want to tap the wisdom of those that have gone before.

Heads up another style of spam/fraud account.

"The 47th Rule of Acquisition says: don't trust a man wearing a better suit than your own."
- Quark

...not bad advice, actually. 🤔
#DS9

@Fragglemuppet you can just tag it in your original post and it will automatically boost it to everybody following that group.

Btw @lonelinesscorps is a group bot that will boost anyone that tags it.
It's basically a mustering point for community building.
People use it to:
•reach out when they're bored •start some kind of silliness like our watch parties
•share strategies for local community building
•and sometimes just have deep talks about loneliness, community, and healthy relationships

Follow it for more randomness and connection in your life.
Use it to help combat loneliness for yourself or others.

For anybody who needs to hear it today:
Good job surviving.
This shit is hard, yo.

Heads up there's a new fraud trend, fake mutual aid accounts.
Brand new sign up dates and immediately started @'ing people for support.
Especially in our community I find this stuff particularly offensive.
So be sure someone is legit before you boost a #mutualAid request. And report these fraud accounts if they @ you.
Eg of the latest one I got:

I made tea to comfort myself.

Then forgot to drink it.

Found it again.

It's still hot.

Life's a rollercoaster, ya'll.

Heh. I just had a shower and unthinkingly got dressed in fresh bedtime pyjamas. It's 1:30 in the afternoon.
I think my subconscious may be telling me something about what to expect from myself for the rest of the day. Nothing.