I am also having to come to peace that my destiny is to not be a Melania Trump, but a mom who cleans her own house, cooks her own food, fixes her own things, and carries her own burdens. Melania Trump has many handmaids to assist her with her life, and she doesn't work the way that I do. She has burdens that I will never have in my anonymous life, so I don't envy her.
She wears the uniform that's suitable for the job she has. And, I need to wear the uniform that is best for MY destiny.