pregnancy is not a disease abortion is not disease treatment (although it can be) it is a personal choice based on factors that the pregnant person is dealing with, whether medical or otherwise
of course the dr. must agree -- we can't be forcing medical professionals to do what they believe wrong -- but that one dr. is far from the only option, maybe even in the same facility or the patient can find other kinds of healthcare than mainstream I've even heard of self-surgery
and there are all kinds of medical procedures done for reasons other than medical need
because I suggested dialog to a mutually satisfactory conclusion, or, obviously these two parties can't meet and another solution will be found if the person is sufficiently motivated I am not talking about arbitrary laws, but actual possibilities often a dr. is more concerned with liability than the patient's needs
I am ok with people deciding what they want and telling the people they need to help them with that, and said helpers having the autonomy to agree or explain why not, enter into dialog to figure out what would work for all concerned.
we ought to be giving people that bodily autonomy -- in my experience, doctors are not gods, judges, juries or very good at listening to their clients' concerns or facts
complications can occur at any time -- or get worse or maybe everyone can be saved if the mother goes on bed rest for the rest of the pregnancy -- so what does she do about other obligations? how is she to pay for this complicated pregnancy while unable to work? it's all about life or death, right? how about when the baby will have serious health issues? The potential mother is the person who makes these choices for herself and progeny -- let her have the autonomy
death is the natural result of life no one is guaranteed anything hopefully we learn to avoid the stupidity of activities that are both bad for us and others, but people tend toward stupidity when not sufficiently motivated to think abortion is neither the problem nor the important issue
and the fictional mom? Have we honestly delved her reasons? Is she ok with this adoption? Why legally? The law has no place in these personal matters (even if there are laws that do) How about we have a fictional conversation with those involved and see where we are?
why are you making assumptions about fictional women? if this pregnant person is indeed aborting this fetus for purely arbitrary reasons -- not because she would be in danger -- then, of course she is doing right by her not to be born child by not giving them both miserable lives
law as a social code ought not be based on some possibly temporary or local idea of morality, but on the common understandings of the people affected from all perspectives