Notices by Burn This Dyspho Out 🏳️‍⚧️ (testoceratops@disabled.social)

PS: I'm not open to debate on my previous post.

This is coming from me: a guy with gender dysphoria, on HRT for almost 7 years, and who's had surgery.

You don't need ANY of this to be trans, and saying otherwise is also ableist as some folks can't transition physically, even if they'd like to.

Please take a moment to think about it today. Fighting internalized transphobia is important and will make you a better, more understanding person.

That's it from me on this #TransDayOfVisibility 🏳️⚧️

Oh, and here's an important reminder!
It doesn't make you less trans if you:

- don't change your name.

- can't/don't want to be on HRT.

- can't/don't want any surgery, or just some.

- don't feel gender dysphoria.

Don't let nobody tell you who you are and what to do with your body.

There's no wrong choice, the good one is to be yourself as much as you can to be happy.

Your body, your choice. Rooting for you and wishing you the best. :blobfox_heart_trans:

#TransDayOfVisibility #TDoV

Posted too late local time, but I really wanted to say something about it.

I don't have the energy to explain further on my last sentence, but I could write a whole thread out of it someday.

At the same time, it's your own identity, but also you're not alone, even if everyone lives it differently. You'll always find someone with a gender similar to yours to talk about it, and be friends with.

Community is so important and necessary in this world.

#TransIsBeautiful #TransDayOfVisibility

Happy #TransDayOfVisibility everyone. I'm proud of y'all, and proud of my journey as well. :blobhaj_hearttrans:

Transitioning saved my life. More than that: it allowed it to truly begin.

Thinking of everyone who can't be fully themselves, and sending all my strength if wanted. We'll never stop to fight for our rights and everyone else's.

Nobody's free until we all are.

The trans umbrella's diversity is beautiful. It's a celebration of oneself's own identity, and a wonderful community.

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Some other trans reminders:

It's alright to decide not to change your pronouns, or to change it anytime.

It's alright to try names/pronouns to see which ones fit for you. I totally encourage this.

It's alright no matter when you discovered you were trans. As a child, in your 60s...

It's alright to be unsure, and if you need time.

You're trans enough. Nobody can take your identity away from you or know better than you do. :heart_trans:

#TransDayOfVisibility #TDoV

Hey friends,

If you want to and can help a disabled couple and a cat (soon to be two) on this #Caturday, it would mean a lot please.

I'm begging, we really need a new mattress to reduce our chronic pain and breathing issues. I have to stay on meds because of it and want to protect my fiancé, Clyde, and Mitzi soon.

We didn't plan on adopting before moving, but I've explained why.

PayPal link above
Ask for Revolut / Lydia

Thanks!! 🐈

@GreenSkyOverMe I've never heard of it, I'll check it out tomorrow. Thank you so much!!

Still have to set the GFM for Mitzi's travel fees as well. It's such a mess, I don't know what picture I should use for it as it's not optional. Not sure how much it will cost. But we still don't have the date so I think it can wait until I have more energy after sleeping to be set up. Too many things to think about, I'm kinda overwhelmed

If you're boycotting PayPal but want to help financially, you can ask for my Revolut account in dm. I can get a Lydia one if people are willing to donate there. Please let me know, thank you so much for any help.

I wish I could boycott, but in France we don't have venmo or cashapp.

Thanks for your attention and for your help! Please boost again if you don't mind, thanks a lot!

@mutualaid

#MutualAid #DisabledMutualAid #DisabledCrowdfund #TransCrowdfund

We're about to adopt my fiancé's grandma's cat because she has to go to a retirement home, we'd REALLY need to change the mattress before, and use the vacuum as I can't lean anymore due to my disabilities.

Thanks if you make it possible, one way or another! We just can't and won't abandon her, and we all need a better environment to live here until we can move out.

#MutualAid #MutualAidRequest #DisabledMutualAid #HelpFolksLive #HelpFolksLive2025 #AdoptDontShop #Disability #FediCats #Caturday

Hey friends,

My fiancé and I are only living on my disability benefits and have expenses we really need help with, please.

We urgently need a new mattress as ours is old, very thin and rotten. With the delivery, it would be around 300€.

We have 26€ in train fees for my hysterectomy appointment on the 25th.

Our microwave stopped working so we need a new one ASAP (50€), and a vacuum (40€)

Any help, boost or donation, would be amazing, please. Thank you!!

https://www.paypal.me/VirgileMougin

@mutualaid

127€/510€ raised so far, thank you so much!

Emergency mutual aid ⚠️

I only have 4 days left to raise 510€ for my health insurance renewal, I desperately need it as I'm hugely injured following cops brutality and disabled.

Any amount makes a difference please, thank you so much. Don't donate if you can't, a boost would be greatly appreciated, please!

https://www.paypal.me/VirgileMougin

Thank you so much for your help and understanding, I'm so sorry and ashamed to ask for more than expected but really can't do otherwise...

@mutualaid

#MutualAid

I can't believe I forgot to check when it was due, I really thought it was March.

I've been so confused lately with everything happening.

Today, or should I say yesterday, it's been two weeks since I've been beaten up by cops. I really really need to be covered as I'm still injured, bleeding and in need of medical care.

My hysterectomy is supposed to be this year too.

I beg you, please help if you can

Had a GP appointment yesterday. It cost me 30€ + 24€ for the cab.
She was nice but it was tough for me. She certified of all my visible injuries.

We've raised 282€ so far, thank you so much! My meds are paid, the fine too.

Still in need for vet fees, a lawyer appointment + transport fees, as I psychologically really need to sue them, please.

Thanks for any help!

@mutualaid

So I'll see a GP on Monday and have to go to a gynecologist asap. It's hard to find a safe one here, the only transfriendly one would require to take the train AND the cab back and forth.

She could see me next week.

I can't handle more violence, but we'll see on how much we'll raise. I'd need an ultrasound or something, but ugh... Can't go anywhere safe nearby...

Also have to go for juridical advices. What a week it's gonna be.

Hey friends,

I'm raising money to cover:

- non refunded meds (80€)

- cab and potential train fees to medical and potential juridical/lawyer appointments, as I can't move due to cops brutality.

- vet fees for our cat Clyde's belly growth.

- 2nd bus fine from last July asked now (144€)

Idk how much we need yet, but it's gonna be expensive if I decide to take them to court. I'll let you know ASAP.

https://www.paypal.me/VirgileMougin

Please boost, thank you for any help! 💙

@mutualaid

Waited 9 hours at the ER, had a spine, elbow and hand x-ray at the doctor's order, I have many bruises, mobility and nervous issues, but nothing's broken.

They were so few doctors they said I had to go to my GP for further medical exam. The psychiatrist let me out with my fiancé, but it was 3am by then so we had to take a cab to get home.

I had to wait at the hospital, if I left without seeing a psychiatrist, the hospital had to call the cops back and if I didn't cooperate, they could use weapons on me.

I was so fucking shocked.

Stayed at least 40 minutes like that.

They asked and said transphobic stuff, kicked, and I've been sexually assaulted.

The lady in the ambulance saved me from this nightmare. The cop didn't want to get the handcuffs off, so I was still wearing them in the ambulance, but she managed to get them and the cop off to get me safe.

Hey everyone,
I hope you all are doing well.

I'm so sorry... A few days ago, I've attempted suicide and got grabbed by the neck and have been thrown on the ground by a cop.

He kept my arms behind my back and held me with his weight. I told him I couldn't breathe, even had a seizure later, but he held my head on the ground. Other cops arrived and they called the ER. They handcuffed me like a criminal, still on the ground in winter.