Notices by It's my birthday 🎈 (testoceratops@disabled.social)

Got 29€ in total today, thank you so much! Any help is still really appreciated if you can, please.

Thanks for your kindness, and all the wishes! I'm deeply grateful :heart_trans:

@GreenSkyOverMe Pinned again, hopefully it works now

Hey everyone,

It would be really kind if you could boost my pinned crowdfunding one last time today, please, since our goal hasn't been reached.

@mutualaid

Thanks a thousand times if you've helped in any way! :heart_trans: :disability_flag:

Heyy friends, today's my birthday, since it's over midnight here :BlobHajMlem:

Please share some mutual aids posts for me today, if it's alright for you, and donate a few bucks if you're willing to and can afford it. Thank you so much for everything you've done and still do for us!

If you want to help my family, here are ways to donate:

https://gofund.me/2aed7521

https://www.paypal.me/VirgileMougin

Ask for Lydia/Revolut

Thank you very much. Love you all :blobfox_heart_trans:

Hope y'all are doing as well as possible xx

Hey FediFriends,

We're a trans disabled couple struggling financially, so I made this GFM.

I've explained more in the description, but basically, eating without gluten and lactose (I'm intolerant) has become way too expensive. I really need to eat more, please we need help.

Thank you for any boost or donation :heart_trans:

@mutualaid

https://gofund.me/2aed7521

#MutualAid #DisabilityCrowdfund #Birthday

For more transparency, here's what I'd like to get. Of course, I don't want anyone to feel like they have to donate, I don't expect anything!

My list:

- A laptop bag with enough storage for its accessories.
- One for my tablet as well.
- A 256go SD card for my Switch.
- Wireless earbuds for training.
- Training clothes to start my martial arts practice at home and outside.
- A VPN sub.

Thank you if anyone shares or can donate :blobhaj_hearttrans:

Hey friends,

In less than 3 weeks, it'll be my birthday.

I'm disabled and depressed. We could definitely use some help to get some gifts and have a nice day.

Please, prioritize people in need for food, shelter etc first + don't donate if you're in a precarious situation too!

Thanks for any help! 💙

https://www.paypal.me/VirgileMougin

Ask for Lydia / Revolut (will set other ways to donate up asap, but I'm very low on spoons)

PS: I'm not open to debate on my previous post.

This is coming from me: a guy with gender dysphoria, on HRT for almost 7 years, and who's had surgery.

You don't need ANY of this to be trans, and saying otherwise is also ableist as some folks can't transition physically, even if they'd like to.

Please take a moment to think about it today. Fighting internalized transphobia is important and will make you a better, more understanding person.

That's it from me on this #TransDayOfVisibility 🏳️⚧️

Oh, and here's an important reminder!
It doesn't make you less trans if you:

- don't change your name.

- can't/don't want to be on HRT.

- can't/don't want any surgery, or just some.

- don't feel gender dysphoria.

Don't let nobody tell you who you are and what to do with your body.

There's no wrong choice, the good one is to be yourself as much as you can to be happy.

Your body, your choice. Rooting for you and wishing you the best. :blobfox_heart_trans:

#TransDayOfVisibility #TDoV

Posted too late local time, but I really wanted to say something about it.

I don't have the energy to explain further on my last sentence, but I could write a whole thread out of it someday.

At the same time, it's your own identity, but also you're not alone, even if everyone lives it differently. You'll always find someone with a gender similar to yours to talk about it, and be friends with.

Community is so important and necessary in this world.

#TransIsBeautiful #TransDayOfVisibility

Happy #TransDayOfVisibility everyone. I'm proud of y'all, and proud of my journey as well. :blobhaj_hearttrans:

Transitioning saved my life. More than that: it allowed it to truly begin.

Thinking of everyone who can't be fully themselves, and sending all my strength if wanted. We'll never stop to fight for our rights and everyone else's.

Nobody's free until we all are.

The trans umbrella's diversity is beautiful. It's a celebration of oneself's own identity, and a wonderful community.

1/5

Some other trans reminders:

It's alright to decide not to change your pronouns, or to change it anytime.

It's alright to try names/pronouns to see which ones fit for you. I totally encourage this.

It's alright no matter when you discovered you were trans. As a child, in your 60s...

It's alright to be unsure, and if you need time.

You're trans enough. Nobody can take your identity away from you or know better than you do. :heart_trans:

#TransDayOfVisibility #TDoV

Hey friends,

If you want to and can help a disabled couple and a cat (soon to be two) on this #Caturday, it would mean a lot please.

I'm begging, we really need a new mattress to reduce our chronic pain and breathing issues. I have to stay on meds because of it and want to protect my fiancé, Clyde, and Mitzi soon.

We didn't plan on adopting before moving, but I've explained why.

PayPal link above
Ask for Revolut / Lydia

Thanks!! 🐈

@GreenSkyOverMe I've never heard of it, I'll check it out tomorrow. Thank you so much!!

Still have to set the GFM for Mitzi's travel fees as well. It's such a mess, I don't know what picture I should use for it as it's not optional. Not sure how much it will cost. But we still don't have the date so I think it can wait until I have more energy after sleeping to be set up. Too many things to think about, I'm kinda overwhelmed

If you're boycotting PayPal but want to help financially, you can ask for my Revolut account in dm. I can get a Lydia one if people are willing to donate there. Please let me know, thank you so much for any help.

I wish I could boycott, but in France we don't have venmo or cashapp.

Thanks for your attention and for your help! Please boost again if you don't mind, thanks a lot!

@mutualaid

#MutualAid #DisabledMutualAid #DisabledCrowdfund #TransCrowdfund

We're about to adopt my fiancé's grandma's cat because she has to go to a retirement home, we'd REALLY need to change the mattress before, and use the vacuum as I can't lean anymore due to my disabilities.

Thanks if you make it possible, one way or another! We just can't and won't abandon her, and we all need a better environment to live here until we can move out.

#MutualAid #MutualAidRequest #DisabledMutualAid #HelpFolksLive #HelpFolksLive2025 #AdoptDontShop #Disability #FediCats #Caturday

Hey friends,

My fiancé and I are only living on my disability benefits and have expenses we really need help with, please.

We urgently need a new mattress as ours is old, very thin and rotten. With the delivery, it would be around 300€.

We have 26€ in train fees for my hysterectomy appointment on the 25th.

Our microwave stopped working so we need a new one ASAP (50€), and a vacuum (40€)

Any help, boost or donation, would be amazing, please. Thank you!!

https://www.paypal.me/VirgileMougin

@mutualaid

127€/510€ raised so far, thank you so much!

Emergency mutual aid ⚠️

I only have 4 days left to raise 510€ for my health insurance renewal, I desperately need it as I'm hugely injured following cops brutality and disabled.

Any amount makes a difference please, thank you so much. Don't donate if you can't, a boost would be greatly appreciated, please!

https://www.paypal.me/VirgileMougin

Thank you so much for your help and understanding, I'm so sorry and ashamed to ask for more than expected but really can't do otherwise...

@mutualaid

#MutualAid