@therivercrow Oh yeah, I absolutely see how you'd want to put distance between yourself and a faith that you have that kind of personal history with.
I'm lucky to be able to forge, appropriate and attach my own context, only because I had distance in the first place.
I similarly feel a philosophical kinship with what you've expressed, as well as with the Hekatean current in general.
Many years and a couple of genders ago I was named after Hekate, and I still honour that relationship for all that has changed.