Darby, I am one of the most major smart asses, but here's some non smart ass advice. Relax, go back to having fun on here. Just don't take it so seriously. It's the internet. Just like in life, some will be kind, some will be cruel, some may even be kinda cruel. However, it's just the internet. The sun rises and sets each day, no matter what get's said on here. And yet, it doesn't nor should it change who you are in negative ways. Only learn and grow from it. Other than that, who cares, have fun with it.