@veff @0 @LouisConde @weaf TO SOME EXTENT ITS A SOCIALLY ENGINEERED THING
ITS LIKE THE MARSHMALLOW TEST BUT YOU PUNCH THE KID IN THE FACE AND EAT THE MARSHMALLOW IF HE WAITS AS YOU TOLD HIM

THE HELPLESSNESS IS LEARNED -- IT CAN BE UNLEARNED
THROUGH HELP BY OTHERS
AND WOULDN'T YOU KNOW IT, GROUPING UP FOR MUTUAL HELP IS THE WAY TO SURVIVE IN EVENT OF HOT WAR AND MARTIAL LAW