@BsCreativeLife Graham Greene wrote "You don’t bless what you love…It’s when you want to love and you can’t manage it. You stretch out your hands and you say God forgive me that I can’t love but bless this thing anyway…We have to bless what we hate…It would be better to love, but that’s not always possible."
Incidentally, the root meaning of the English word "bless" derives from the Anglo Saxon term "bletsain" meaning "to mark with blood."