@dave Yes, I had a partner who was like this… He would want to be intimate after an argument, and I would still be upset because I was trying to find the words to express my feelings, and when I get like that, I am very disregulated and oversensitive to any kind of sensory input, so I do not actually even want to be touched. I want to be left alone to figure out how I feel, but this person's emotions could just turn on a dime. It was wild.