I am impressed that N3f can tell the entirety of the fediverse that plat's wife is either not real or he killed her and the reactions "helping" him said...well it might be true....but also shut up. Then shocked he was upset.
I might get this is he was ever the one to bring it up. I agree that he shouldn't lash out but not because it isn't understandable. Saying well its possible nef is right...isn't exactly having his back. It's pushing him off a ledge.
My stance is as it was before...this has nothing to do with any of you. All you did was undermine actual conflict resolution and validate Nef's actions. N3f should have apologized. He should have been told to apologize without caveats.
Good night.