@madison @Hyperhidrosis Yeah, if she doesn't want that you may as well call it off before you pay for her dinner. Idk, my New Year's resolution this year was to be more of an asshole but I've been on a break from the dating apps for a while. If I were on them though, and a woman refused a hug, I think I'd unmatch her on the spot and then leave before going through the whole charade.