it's sooooooooo hard to get a tranny to understand that abuse is not normal and that they deserve more than to be abused. it's like they believe that they aren't worthy of love in any way, shape, or form, and must settle for being receptacles of violence that real people want to enact on them.

especially because most of them have a lifetime of experiences being told that they're evil and selfish for having any sense of self at all and need to shut up and be good little trannies who never make any problems for others

but the hardest part, i think, is trying to get the dolls to understand that the love they get from others is actually abuse, because most of us are so starved of positive attention that we'll accept nearly everything uncritically