@xuya @Humpleupagus @NonPlayableClown my mother has a very Asian way of thinking. It's hard to understand how strong the genes of this great great grandfather was. He survived by clinging to a rock when his boat with his family sunk. You can see Asian features in most of my family just from this great great grandfather. My mother is extremely target oriented. It's all about always needing to do a task. Never relaxing. On the other hand she is the one that makes things happen