@hellomiakoda Thank you. I was worried I might not be giving the best words for your situation with the rude roommates... I agree wholeheartedly with what Murdoc said. They should not be mad with you, unless they are selfish hoomans. Seems like selfish peoples, lacking respect for your time of mourning.
Their game is not that important, if you wanna quote me, tell them to use "blue fire". My past DND groups told me that most DND players should know what Blue Fire means.