"Men only want one thing, and it's"
It's intimacy. Men only want one thing, and it's intimacy. But sex is the only socially sanctioned way that straight men can seek out intimacy without running the risk of being called a fag.
And it's awful; the internal rot of toxic masculinity. But when I see so many professional computer-touchers talking about building furniture or learning to cook or bake or or, I get it. I understand wanting that tactile connection to the world, how losing it feels.