@ninafromcanadaeh When I worked in a school in behavioural support, I inherited a case load that included three boys who claimed to have anger management issues. When I asked them what they had been doing with my predecessor to overcome them, they all looked incredulous. It had never occurred to them that they needed to do something; they thought it was a handy label to carry on as usual with a get-out-of-jail-free card.
They had a very rude awakening.