@s Might not even actually be autistic or have ADHD. Mental disorders go intentionally underdiagnosed in women because women are pathological self-placebo munchausen syndrome havers & WILL manifest any symptoms read about online. Some years ago I met a girl that was so lost in the tourette's larp that it started causing problems to her everyday life in a way that was fundamentally indistinguishable from actual people with tourette's.