@lucy @chjara @lizzy I don't want people to "let me the fuck be". I would die if that happened.
I want people to provide what support I appreciate, and not hold that support hostage in order to dictate my personal life. (I would also like to help others, but this should not be a compulsory requirement, because then you need someone deciding what "help others" means, wasting effort keeping the gate, and that doesn't help anyone, least of all people who can't actually help others.)