There shouldn't even be any kind of -demand- for "pickup artists" and wankers like that in any society. Gods, everyone knows what makes a man attractive. Being warm and patient. Putting other people's needs before your own. Being a good listener. The kind of vibe that makes it obvious that you're a generous lover. The right balance between humility and assertiveness. Being a loving father. That's the kind of stuff that makes a man fucking irresistible. Always has been.