@RadicalCartoons @mk I'm not aware of Spinster etiquette beyond say what you want to and offer explanations is asked for clarification. Misunderstandings occur, but only the dogmatic will refuse to discuss it. At the end of the line, agree to disagree is also fine.
Worst case is block or mute. I've muted a few people because I might have liked a post or two, but them found them annoying or rude. I know I've been blocked or muted by a few as well. I don't take it personally.
It's pretty chill on here which is why we left the hot shouty mess that was Twatter.
Here's a heart from me! ❤