I think people who say this are confused. When men cry over the kind of things only women typically cry over (like a hard day at work), then I don't feel any sympathy. But if a man is crying over something legit, like the death of someone important, then I 100% empathize and help that dude. He needs to be a rock and not show weakness in front of his wife and kids. It's my duty to help him as a brother when he needs me to pick him up and carry him back to the Lord. Who else can he go to if not God and his brothers?