@graf i'm the retard with ~2k relays subscriptions instead of follow botting federation on a single user instance, the bloat is on the receiving instance since Announce activities pile up, running the relay itself is a matter of efficiently broadcasting the ap id's

you would be better off running https://github.com/yukimochi/Activity-Relay or https://git.asonix.dog/asonix/relay since the janky python one sucked hard when you last hosted it, and i don't think it's the right way to handle that anyway