Women are actually the rape sex, note how if she gets the idea you don't actually want to have sex with her, or straight up refused her advances (subtly, or out loud), she will try more and more to get you to sleep with her.

they want you to sleep with them specifically because they know you said No.
if you were actually interested she wouldn't give a shit but now that you don't want to, they HAVE to drag you in their bed