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It’s always interesting to see who feels attacked when performative allyship is pointed out. Do I think people are on purpose performative? Maybe not always, maybe even rarely. But that’s a bias and people need to understand that.

When the people you want to be an ally for point out that your actions feel hollow and useless, then it is your place to listen and correct. It’s not their task to mitigate and put critique in a nice package.

Even well meaning peeps and orgs can do harm. Do better.