To put it politely - I am not part of a "community" out here. I'm not saying I hate all of you, because I don't, but I'm old and I've been online since online became a thing, and I've honestly just about had my fill of online community-based parasocial drama and infighting. There is no side for me to take in your arguments because there is no "we" - I'm just a bitch with a library card who has spent the last decade trying to show people something before the nazis drag me away and kill me. I'm me