Also: unlike what it seems in the media, there are vast swathes of America that are really.. nice places to live in.
My wife talk about this a lot, as immigrants, about returning to my first world Asian country vs her European one, and we always land on ‘nope’.
There’s more to this, but also has to do with ‘CA is still the best for us as a queer trans-national and interracial couple at this particular stage in our lives in spite of whatever is happening out there’.
We really like our lives here and do not want to move again.