@missjanedoe I refuse to be like the boomers who think the problems they never faced are imaginary. I have talked with several people about the concept of Christian arranged marriage IRL and I want the idea to propagate. Similarly we need to get square dances and other church events back and tell the fuds who complain about 'church becoming a dance hall' that it's better to temporarily become that than permanently become shuttered or turned into an mosque after the young people leave upon finding it spiritually and emotionally fruitless.