Just to be clear: I am demanding •none• of the above of anyone else. This is Paul goals. Like I said, I’m in a position to do this work because I’m in a relatively more comfortable, more privileged, and less vulnerable situation than a whole lot of other people.
Please don’t go out and be the niceness police because of what I wrote. If you’ve got it in you to find a new well of kindness, great. And if someone is grouchy with fighting for their very survival, well, the fact that they are grouchy should be the •least• of our concerns.
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