@shibao Also IME this doesn't work unless you have the "work hard play hard" mentality, if your personal life is that you just want to chill and socialize with friends work will never be anything but antagonistic to that. If work is instead one thing skill many that you want to hone, it's much easier to allow it to be something that you primarily focus on for a while, and then allow it to ebb into the background and hone your other skills later.