> Please know that I'm saying this with the understanding that you may just not know what to say, and that I hope it doesn't come off as rude, even though it probably will.

> Meme images like this don't make it look like you actually feel anything or that you care, it makes you look flippant and irreverent. That's not the tone I think you're trying to convey. If it is though, that kinda sucks.