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You have an obligation to care for yourself also. And to not fall into that trap of becoming the virtuous martyr who is constantly living in service of other people. It looks admirable from the outside, but it's not healthy for you. It's feeding an unhealthy form of identity.

And just because that person in need is not capable of empathy (and you understand that), it doesn't mean that you don't need or deserve it. 3/