What I appreciate in a woman:
Intelligence, when you can talk to her on any topic.
I do not like it when “look in the mouth”, ie listen agreeing with everything, I like it when she can reasonably dispute my statement. But at the same time to be able to stop in time, which in other words, and of themselves should be required.
Femininity, the manifestation of affection, care and love with their actions, manners, and not just be ready for sex (it is simply no longer interesting, because the majority of such).

@mk
“accept him having sex with other women”? Are you ready to put up with her having sex with other men?