Of course, I’m almost 55, so I have a different view on technology (not in that way. My job is Evangelist at Red Hat, I’m at the forefront of tech, which gives me a maybe better informed view). Your real friends will call, install Signal and come over for a coffee or you’ll meet them in the beer garden. Join a political party and participate in local politics. Ask your local library if you can help. Your local soup kitchen. The place where seniors meet. Your local community needs you :)