@krankheit you know you're just trying to rationalize transmisogyny, which you ought to consider not posting on a transfeminist instance.

is it realistic to call my fully estrogenized body, with barely an ounce of testosterone in it, male? are my tits male? maybe not, but definitely my gonads and genitals, right? well i don't have those. maybe if you were really motivated to deligitimize the womanhood of trans women you might be able to argue that i'm not female, but there's no arguing i'm male.

furthermore, even if you went through none of that, you having sex with a man wouldn't be "gay", it'd be "cringe" (i.e. "straight")