Seth Larson@baconandcoconut In our case it was blind assumptions, I wouldn't expect them to check social media but internalizing how we sign off on our own cards or texting to clarify are well-within the realm of expectations for them. I would not be surprised if for both family members this was their first experiences with a married couple that didn't share a family name.
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