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I found this through the clickbaity thumbnail "if she says this do not marry her". I kind of intended to jump in somewhere, scoff at it and move on. But it drew me in!

The last 20 min (2:02:00, "Is cheating okay?", "Should we get married" and then "The last guest question"):

farside.link/invidious/watch?v…

youtube.com/watch?v=-MGyiqVjdK…

The title "The Divorce Expert: 86% Of People Who Divorce Remarry! ..." sounded kind of interesting, but I did not see the rest of the title, "Why Sex Is Causing Divorces!". Maybe I wouldn't have clicked if I did. The title of the channel would have put me off too, "The Diary of A CEO", ugh, but I didn't notice that either.

It's 2 h 20 min long, but I listened to the last 20 min, and it was such a rollercoaster and this guy seems so interesting and the conversation so good that I intend to find two hours more to listen to the whole thing.

The guy comes off cynical, even acerbic, skeptical toward the whole institution of marriage except as a source of income for him as a divorce lawyer, but also eloquent and intellectual ... and then he delivers such a beautiful view on love that my eyes tear up.