@Tactical @wgiwf @monsterislandcolonizer This is how my buddy got trickle-truthed
"oh hehe I'm just doing cosplay online sometimes, for fun"
Turns out she was doing some kind of cam work on the side. A lot of them just get seduced into it, they put themselves out there for the dopamine, the faux community aspect, and then some horny pervert makes them an offer that pays enough to override the shyness of cam work, probably a fetish.
I thought he was crazy but I don't judge him so harshly these days, shut-in women can have very low body counts, and while it's non optimal it's better than nothing, as long as you can tame her