Lmao nobody gains anything from me, trust me. No power is in my hands but mine, for all that bodily autonomy you preach about you sure don't use it to work your ass off and be a person of worth.

You didn't "realize" anything, you just need any excuse in the book as to why you failed at basic social interaction and feminism absolves you of any responsibility for your failures. I don't blame you for taking the exit door because it's easier but you know damn well I'm right.