It’s ok if you’re queer/lgbt and you got a “later start” than what the usual narrative implies.
Maybe you didn’t figure it all out until you were well into adulthood. Maybe you haven’t started transitioning yet due to lack of resources or uncertainty. Maybe you couldn’t date due to living in a small and dangerous town.
It’s all ok. The great thing about being queer/lgbt is that there is no one true way of living.
You’re out here sailing on an ocean of possibility. Don’t worry about sticking to someone else’s schedule. The winds will take you home in time.