@mischievoustomato I have two such regrets. One guy from my church because I was a retard and told my pastor to get excommunicated, but I forgot about the one guy I cared about there, a (deist I think) teenager stuck there alone, when I could've told him first, stayed hidden for a few months while figuring out how to keep contact
the other has moved on altogether
thankfully most of the people I've lost were shitty on their end, which makes it easier.